I'm 61; of COURSE I've done LOTS of stupid things and regretted them! (including a 17 year first marriage)
I've rarely exploded, but I do get to a point where I become sarcastic and bitchy. I think I've only actually exploded once. A man we did some house painting for made it clear he was not going to pay us the full amount, just because. He and I (a great big dude) got into a screaming fight, literally right in each other's faces. Well, my face was at his chest level, but we were toe to toe. To this day I''m surprised he didn't hit me. He bullied his entire family, so I'm not surprised (at this point, looking back) that he screwed us over. His family was SO EMBARRESSED.
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Date: 2016-05-04 01:24 am (UTC)I've rarely exploded, but I do get to a point where I become sarcastic and bitchy. I think I've only actually exploded once. A man we did some house painting for made it clear he was not going to pay us the full amount, just because. He and I (a great big dude) got into a screaming fight, literally right in each other's faces. Well, my face was at his chest level, but we were toe to toe. To this day I''m surprised he didn't hit me. He bullied his entire family, so I'm not surprised (at this point, looking back) that he screwed us over. His family was SO EMBARRESSED.
Try to remember to breathe. Ground and center.