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More thoughts on the love between man and animal from my bro -

"Bertie, ... was very special. He suffered a RTA seven years ago when we thought we would lose him. 72 hours in intensive care, jaw broken in two places, a severe bang to the head, tail broken - had to be amputated. But he pulled through.
He had no fear. Shortly after this major incident he was seen atop roofs chasing seagulls. He was always so vocal. He had such a presence. He captured the hearts of everyone who knew him.
We found him in a pet-shop window, looking lost and forlorn. 10 weeks old, we took him away from that place. As a kitten he had very large ears, that he eventually 'grew into'. More than any cat I have known, he 'told' you what was going on. More than any he became my number one lap cat. Loved a cuddle, purred his head off, and let you know who was boss.
I retired 2½ years ago and Bertie became my constant companion during that time. I knew his every mood. Can a cat become a best friend? Bertie did. He would wake me in the morning with a dab on the nose. Every morning. Weekends included. No nonsense. 'Time to get up, Dad'. Oliver was his constant companion. Oliver is now - lost. He wanders around the house and garden, looking for Bertie. Have you ever seen tears in the eyes of a cat? I have. And they mirror my own. I have not experienced such profound grief before over the loss of a beloved pet. Bertie fills my waking hours. I loved you so much and I miss you. I will always miss you...."

Wow.. words fail me. Rest in peace Bertie.

Date: 2015-08-30 12:25 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] maxauburn.livejournal.com
I'm sorry for your loss. I know it's rough. I've been through it several times myself.

It gets better with the passage of time, though it hurts like hell now.

https://rainbowsbridge.com/poem.htm

Date: 2015-08-30 04:43 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] sidhe-uaine42.livejournal.com
Ditto, but your beloved Bertie's waiting for Oliver to join him hopefully not too soon, plus he's with old friends and he's out of pain.

Date: 2015-08-30 01:19 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] dark-phoenix54.livejournal.com
I always hurts, but some hurt worse than others. I deeply fear the day when Banshee goes; it will be hardest ever for me. I hope your brother and Oliver can be comfort for each other during this time.

Date: 2015-08-30 01:22 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] nutmeg3.livejournal.com
What a lovely and moving tribute.

Date: 2015-08-30 01:30 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] splodgenoodles.livejournal.com
That is such a moving tribute, and reminds me of how I felt about TigerCat who died last year. A unique bond.

Date: 2015-08-30 01:32 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] ani-mama.livejournal.com
This is a lovely tribute. Bertie must have had a wonderful life with your brother.

Date: 2015-08-30 10:55 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] davesmusictank.livejournal.com
As Riley is having now.

Date: 2015-08-30 02:14 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] thespian15.livejournal.com
Such a beautiful and sad entry. :(

Poor Oliver. :(
{{{HUGS}}} to Oliver and your brother.
Hugs, Jon

Date: 2015-08-30 04:54 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] wantedonvoyage.livejournal.com
Profound sympathies.

HCD went through this in the autumn last year. He is not an emotive person, but I could tell by how often he brought it up that this was tough for him.

Date: 2015-08-30 06:51 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] sallymn.livejournal.com
The love comes through so much... he sounds like a wonderful little feline.

Date: 2015-08-30 08:24 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] kabuldur.livejournal.com
I'm very sorry for your brother's loss of Bertie, his beloved cat. I think some cats and dogs are just special and shine out in some way, and Bertie sounds like one of those. Mat Bertie rest in peace now and hugs to your bro.

Date: 2015-08-30 10:52 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] davesmusictank.livejournal.com
I feel for Oliver. I wonder how his latest cat Riley is taking all this in?
Edited Date: 2015-08-30 10:53 am (UTC)

Date: 2015-09-14 12:10 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] kabuldur.livejournal.com
I wonder what Riley thinks of this, too. Hopefully Oliver will make friends with Riley and pine for Bertie less as time goes on.

Date: 2015-08-30 01:02 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] spikesgirl58.livejournal.com
I am so sorry for your loss. *Hugs* to both you and your brother!

Date: 2015-08-30 02:36 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] deborahw37.livejournal.com
A lovely tribute to a trusted and beloved friend

Date: 2015-08-30 03:01 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] scripsi.livejournal.com
That's the hardest thing with your pets- having to see them go. :/ It was a lovely eulogy.

Date: 2015-08-30 03:05 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] davesmusictank.livejournal.com
Thanks. When my own cat from a few years back, Tiggy, past away, i felt so bereft. They become so part of the family.

Date: 2015-08-31 06:54 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] scripsi.livejournal.com
Indeed they do. I have had cats and dogs my whole Life and they're family too. :)

Date: 2015-08-30 08:49 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] a-phoenixdragon.livejournal.com
Gods...blessings to your brother. I totally get his pain. But Bertie will always be with him...

*Sends hugs and love*

Date: 2015-08-31 04:25 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] ladyblue56.livejournal.com
What a loving tribute to a wonderful friend and cat. The depth of loss can be paralyzing. I send best thoughts for your brother and you.

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