Grief

[jazzy_dave]

I must admit i cried as well when i read this recent blog from my brother -

The Grief of a Cat



"How long does a cat grieve over the loss of a soulmate? A week? A month? Longer? Oliver and Bertie were constant companions for more than fourteen years. Oliver is now 14½ years old. His soulmate Bertie died 11 days ago. Oliver seems - lost. He still wanders the house and garden - alone. He looks for Bertie. His mood has changed. His demeanour is sorrowful. His eyes are sad. Mood changes - listless. How do you mend the broken heart of a beloved cat? It breaks my heart to see Oliver like this.


I miss Bertie so much, Oliver, as you do. I wish I could bring him back. But I can't. I know you are sad. So am I. I will comfort you as much as I can because I love you too.

And Riley is trying to be your new soulmate. I know he doesn't understand bereavement. But I think - deep down - he misses Bertie too.

It's time to move on Oli...."

Comments

[femme-slash-fan.livejournal.com]

Sometimes they take a long time to move past a death, but when that time comes Ollie will probably become a total cuddle-butt, our dog went from mourning to wanting all the snuggles she could get.